Friday, May 13, 2011

in my world

as i ran yesterday i had this thought:
from now on
i'm only going to love with things i can control (for example: not people)

i looked at the tall grass with the tall street lamps and i thought, i really love that grass
and IT could never break my heart
i really love snowboarding, IT could never break my heart
i really love photography, as long as i have my vision- it will always let me love it

life is easier in this scenario.

going for another hike.
happy weekend in the sun!


mom said...

While in theory, your scenario works. In reality, it would be cold and lonely. Those are inanimate objects and they can't love us back. When we love someone we'll feel the most alive and fulfilled and complete.

Tiana said...

what happens when you can't find someone to love you back though mom?!

lol ;)

desiredshots PHOTOGRAPHY said...

yeah mom!!!

what then?!
T, mom will be our number one guest blogger on our "love me, no serious-love me" blog.

mom said...

Find someone who you love totally and completely. All the good stuff (which is easy to love) and the bad stuff. You have to love them for exactly who they are because they will absolutely NOT change. What you see is what you get.

As for finding them, you have to put yourself out there in social situations to meet people. Des has become the dating queen it seems. And, don't right anyone off till you at least take the opportunity to see who they really are. Looks are great but they're superficial...and they fade. It's absolutely what's on the inside that matters. When you least expect it, that's when you'll find him. I know, I know...easier said than done.

mom said...

Tiana, make your list. Ask Des. Check the boxes off and when you can't, move on. Kind of like speed dating.

Tiana said...

I've been trying to sign up for Desiree's real-life Bachelorette game show, I think the check list is what I'm missing for my ticket in!

Haha thanks mom, something I've never even thought of doing actually. I can use the time I spend dreaming about love on my ultimate man check list and then put that sucker into practice.

Speed dating here we come!


desiredshots PHOTOGRAPHY said...

NO. 1 speed dating with checklist=genius/exhausting.

NO. 2 you guys make me sound like a fake, overly boastful bimbo

NO. 3 i love you